Do you really know HER?

Do you know what SHE likes?

Although we seem like a complex sex to work out we really just require you to be a little more attentive. So pay attention to the following tips as they are bound to win you a few points on her chart to having sex with you.

Where as you guys are visual creatures, we like to listen, watch, smell & taste everything on offer.

We LOVE good food. Not just pizza & beers, when it's your turn to cook. Get us Chocolate when we are premenstrual and take us out on our Birthdays & remember it's only once a year. How hard can it be?

We LOVE to talk to you. Ok sometimes it may seem like we are talking at you but really we are helping you get to know us & we'd appreciate you listening so you can learn about ALL the things we hate about you.

We do try to be interested in your hobbies & we know that you try to enjoy our hobbies which are mainly shopping, eating & looking pretty (which is really for you anyway). I guess that this area will always have its moments of disagreement & frustration for both parties & compromising may seem impossible. But you gotta give as well as take. So give up your hobbies for us & may be then you will get laid.

We LOVE the smell of freshly showered bodies, not the "man-up" B.O version of  you. Again you are more likely to get laid if you do this regularly.

We LOVE being noticed & complemented – not just wolf-whistled at when you drive past us in your SS V8 ute.

Say something nice about us every day. Don't just complement our vaginas when you are having sex with it. Although we like this, the rest of us is attached to the vagina and it would be nice to have you notice that & complement the effort we went to that led you to playing with our vaginas.

This leads me to the final tip…

Playing with our vaginas requires a little more than complements. We need you to spend a little time getting to know it better. Don't feel immasculated if we tell you we want it played with a certain way. If we tell you how we like it then you are going to feel more heroic because you will be able to get us off every time AND you will get more sex. It's a win win situation.

Remember it's always about US. Once you have learnt this you will get more pleasurable, longer lasting, intense, sex and we'll like you & want to give it to you more too…

Happy days getting to know HER better

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Ms Anna Magdelena

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A Corset is an item of clothing which is designed to shape the torso but mainly to reduce the waist, for aesthetic purposes in this case, and accentuate the hips and bust giving a more "hourglass" shape.

They are mainly worn by women but have been worn by men both for medical and aesthetic purposes.  

If you are looking for a corset that will cinch in your waist, enhance your bust and hips, then a Steel boned corset is what is commonly available on the market today. Traditionally they were fabricated using whale bone to hold the shape with rear lacing. The best way to get a corset that is going to offer you this is to have one custom made. The more common "lingerie"-style corsets are plastic or acrylic boned and do not offer the same figure shaping ability of the more traditional styles or of the Steel-boned styles. Nevertheless they are always very flattering for ALL body shapes regardless of whether they reduce your waist size or not.

The majority of corsets will have rear-lacing. This allows for the corset to be shaped and fastened into place creating that classic criss-cross pattern so erotically associated with corset wearing.

Corsets are extremely sexy and these days many women are opting to wear them as a fashion piece of clothing rather than just a bedroom item or an underwear garment so it is no wonder that Women are choosing to flaunt the sexiness of corset-wearing as everyday fashion.

Corset Options

If you're looking to buy a corset, make sure you take the time to try on several styles as there is no "one" style that fits or suits most. Each woman will have a style that suits her perfectly.

For instance there are cupped corsets which have a cup included in the design of the corset. This allows for the breasts to sit up-right like this Burlesque-style corset.

Perfect for smaller breasted women, but not exclusive to.

A longer torso corset like this is perfect for those who want to hide their tummies while enhancing the bust and hips. This particular Goth-style brocade corset sits low on the hips almost hugging them making you look leaner and more shapely. This has no cups but will certainly enhance what is there.

Those that are bigger breasted will find this style will lift them and shape them leaving a nice cleavage due to the sweet heart line that dips in front. This is one of the better corsets I recommend for the "Fuller-figured" ladies. Myself included.

Alternatively you may prefer a waist-cincher. This cinches in the waist (reducing waist appearance) leaving the bust exposed. They are super sexy to wear under clothing, over clothing with or without a bra.

They still cover the waist area, so excellent for anyone wanting to hide their tum. The beauty of these are they suit everyone. regardless of shape, size they will simply create the desired effect of a reduced waist leaving you open to display your best assets.

These are just a few of the best and most popular corsets that b'eRotique carries. These and more can be viewed on the b'eRotique WEB page.

I hope this has given you some insight into Corset shopping. b'eRotique staff will always take the time to help you and lace you in to make sure you get the best corset that will flatter your shape. I haven't met a woman (or man) yet that I haven't found the right corset for. Take me up on the challenge if you like.

Thankyou and Good luck with finding your perfect Corset. Please don't hesitate to contact me if you require any advice or assistance.

by

Ms Anna Magdelena

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This may seem like a fairly easy thing to do until you head into an Adult store. There is usually about 1000 or more different vibrators hanging on the wall, each having its own range of colours. You look around and seem overwhelmed and wonder "Where do I start?"

 Firstly have some sort of idea whether you want a toy for clitoral (external stimulation) or for vaginal (internal stimulation) or whether you want simultaneous stimulation (i.e. internal & external at the same time).

Now you may be thinking, "How do I know whether I want internal or external stimulation?" Perhaps the best thing to ascertain is do you like clitoral stimulation to orgasm or do you prefer G-spot stimulation to orgasm, or infact do you just want the feeling of a penis inside you? There are no right or wrong answers here and some of you may want all of the above. At least this gives you a starting point and a direction to move ahead in.

Secondly make sure you ask for or find the best quality products. These are not neccessarily the most expensive products. Go for something that is made out of 100% Medical grade SIlicone. Silicone is body compatible and very hygienic. Many women are allergic to latex and rubber products so it is best to avoid these from the outset if possible. If not then use a condom over your toy to prevent any irritation from occuring.

If you decide you want clitoral stimulation there are usually a number of options – bullets, mini vibrators, tinglers, buzzers and so on. Generally these are small and quite discreet looking. You may prefer something that has several speeds & pulsing patterns allowing you to work your way up through the speeds till you find the perfect setting. Or you may just like a very strong vibration and therefore ther is no need for all the speeds and patterns. Just go for one that goes flat out. You will find that these will either come as a cord free bullet or buzzer or a little tingler that has a cord attached to a battery pack. A mini vibrator will have the same look as a normal vibrator but in a mini version and are normally battery operated. There are also clitoral stimulators that come with a long handle allowing for use during intercourse. Believe it or not there are also rechargeable stimulators for cord free, battery free operating.

I recommend the Ammunition of Love power Bullet for strong stimulation. The S-WET 10 speed power bullets for variable settings. The Lelo Mia for the luxury looking rechargeable option and the mini Funfactory range of vibes like the Mini Meany or the Mini Patchy Paul.

If you want a vibrator for vaginal stimulation that is not for g-spot stimulation, then any number of vibrators can do the job. Choose something size -wise that you would prefer in the real thing. At least then you will get something that will satsify you. Make sure the quality is preferrably silicone. Select a model that is easy to operate as many vibrators have buttons, bells & whistles for just about everything inluding the flashing lights which many of the Japanese made toys tend to have. Perhaps try and find one that is not too noisy, if you have children, live with flatmates or have very thin walls between yourself & your neighbours.

I recommend any of the Funfactory Booster vibe range, the Generation II & III range and the Lelo Liv or Iris. For something slimline and simple go for the B-Swish –  B-good vibrator.

If you want a G-spot vibrator these are the ones that have a large bulbous head or in some cases a head that has a flattened surface on one side. The reason for this is for the extra pressure/firmness that is needed to stimulate the g-spot. Something that has a lip under the head is good as it catches the "tail" of the G-spot when stimulating it.

I recommend the Lelo Gigi or Funfactory's Booster Stubbie for a vibrating strimulator or for a non-vibrating g-spot stimulator you can use a glass toy or a stainless steel toy like the Njoy wands.

If you are wanting a toy that gives you dual stimulation i.e. internal & external at the same time, you can choose fram those that have a rotating shaft and vibrating clit stim, or one that has pearl beads or metal beads in the shaft that rotate with the vibrating clit stim or one that has no rotating anything but vibrates with a vibrating clit stim. What ever you decide to use in this department, it is preferrable to get one that has two independent motors. One in the shaft and one in the clitoral stimulator. That way you get good vibration in both areas for both areas. Everyone has heard of the "Rabbit i-vibe".  This is probably the most popular thanks to the movie "Sex in the City". However, there are some exceptionally great  toys on the market these days that will supersede any rabbit in my books.

I recommend the Funfactory Tango, Mermaid or the Lelo Ina.

All of the toys I have recommended are listed on b'eRotique's website for you to view.

Remember to Always ask for assistance from staff. Request that they take the vibrators out of their packaging and put batteries in them so you can compare your selection.

Good luck and happy vibrator shopping

by

Ms Anna Magdelena

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